If it’s for the best, why not?
Let’s say, you are in a relationship with this person and you two are in love with each other, would you stop doing something that your significant other really hated like smoking? I am not trying to make an anti-smoking campaign here! 
Is your partner worried about your health? Perhaps he had a close relative died of lung cancer and he is truly scared that something similar might sooner or later happen to you or you both?
I don’t smoke, but if I did and my feelings were truly deep and real, I would give up smoking and I would happily and willingly make the change. After all, it would be good for me too. I would simply understand my partner because smoking is unhealthy for me and for everybody. He loves me and he wants me to be the best I can be, particularly health wise. He knows it will be hard to stop and he wants to support me so I can live longer and healthier with him and with people around us. I also think that it would be better if you are doing it for yourself because the self motivation helps more to make the quitting happen than doing it for your loved one.
On the other hand, I know that no one is perfect. I believe that your partner should respect, accept and love you for your imperfections and I know that everyone would like that equal amount of respect for everybody’s personal habits and pleasures.
So what’s your take on this?
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August 9th, 2008 at 12:02 am
I’m very happy we both don’t smoke.
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August 9th, 2008 at 2:38 am
OK. As a smoker, I’d just like to point out that you could’ve picked something easier to give up. Like heroin, maybe. At least people can go to re-hab for that.
But, yes, I think it’s of the good for people to learn to compromise and work with each other, which is what the whole thing comes down to.
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August 9th, 2008 at 9:54 am
me and my partner don’t smoke naman so hindi namin problem sa ngayon yung ganyan
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August 11th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
Nope, I wouldnt. The boyfriend doesnt smoke and I know he’d prefer that I don’t, either, but he can’t really do anything. I’ll quit on my own terms.
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August 11th, 2008 at 6:24 pm
would willingly quit.:D
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August 14th, 2008 at 6:40 pm
smoking gives you bad skin? i didn’t know that.
i’d willingly quit if it was me though.
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August 18th, 2008 at 8:18 am
I like your blog! Thanks for the visit to mine! I would definitely quit something like smoking if it would benefit both me and my guy
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