LDR is torture
What would you regard as a long distance relationship? Could an hour away be a LDR? Are you presently in a LDR so how is it going for you?
I believe an hour away is just whining and bitching. You know, it takes an hour –- or a couple of hours if there is gridlock — to get from his place to the place where I live and I believe that is not a LDR! I guess, I would consider a long distance relationship if your significant other is in another state or country or if you cannot really see each other during the week or weekend. 
This face does not deserve LDR. pbbbt.
Anyway, I am currently not in a LDR and thank God we are not because I think the daydream world of LDR is not at all times the reality of how it would be like if you were together always.
Also, LDR couples must know that it takes a real sky-scraping level of communication and trust between the two of you to make the relationship work. But gah. It’s a waste of time if you are not together. Period. I don’t want LDR. I don’t want.
teehee. 
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May 27th, 2008 at 3:34 am
oh yes, i think they are pointless. but then again, some could say that I am in one in a why. My fiance drives an 18-wheeler and is gone mon-fri and home on the weekend. But I just consider it a job and nothing more…not LDR. :/
May 27th, 2008 at 5:50 am
It’s really hard to be in a long distance relationship. Aside from you can’t be with each other, it takes lots of effort to keep the relationship alive. You have to make sacrifices. And in the end… before you could even realize, the spark has already faded and the love is already gone. sigh.
May 27th, 2008 at 11:58 am
It’s really hard to be in a long distance relationship. It’s hard to trust. And harder to be faithful. :)) haha, i’m just kidding.
May 27th, 2008 at 12:37 pm
don’t like LDR neither..
it sucks big time!!
May 27th, 2008 at 5:08 pm
yeah, LDR sucks. I want my man beside, in front, at the back and all over me everytime
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May 27th, 2008 at 7:01 pm
LDR’s dont work.
May 27th, 2008 at 10:07 pm
wow is that u in the pic?
anywae im not into LDR, and im glad for that.hehe! It sucks, dunno if i can take it if ever i am in that situation:( argg!!
May 27th, 2008 at 10:47 pm
i was in that kind of relationship before. we fought a lot.
May 28th, 2008 at 2:53 am
LOL @ Trench and his or her conviction. I’m in an LDR and it’s the best relationship I’ve been in.
May 28th, 2008 at 8:39 am
I could never see myself in a long distance relationship. I just don’t have the time, patience or energy. My sweetheart lives about an hour or so away from me and we get to see one another pretty regularly. It’s never a problem for us.
May 28th, 2008 at 6:51 pm
Super mahirap talaga po. Trust ang foundation together with communication.
May 28th, 2008 at 8:47 pm
Long distance relationships seem more stressful than anything else, I try to avoid them.
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May 28th, 2008 at 9:09 pm
I think I am in a LDR. Just because we see each other once a week, and we’re on different states :P
May 29th, 2008 at 3:24 am
I wouldn’t exactly call long distance relationships pointless without knowing the circumstances it began with.
For example: You’re with someone. You’ve been dating a few years. He goes in the military and gets stationed somewhere that you can’t go. Is that a pointless relationship? Absolutely not.
Now on the other hand, meeting someone over the internet, that you’ve never seen in person and calling it a relationship is very much pointless.
May 29th, 2008 at 8:12 am
My life has been a continual LDR. I started dating my now husband in college, he went to school in CO and I in CA. We broke up because he was going to join the Navy and I didn’t want that kind of life. A few years later we ended up together and in a LDR again. Now we’re married, he’s been deployed two times that doesn’t even count the time he’s gone for training. We make it work because he’s the right person for me and our communication is very good. It has to be, otherwise our relationship would never work.
May 29th, 2008 at 10:30 am
I’ve never been in a LDR but I bet it would be tough, I’d miss the person so much. But absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Haha, I always say my right angle is the best.
May 29th, 2008 at 10:55 am
Here’s the thing. LDR isn’t for everyone. There are people who like to have LDR coz they have freedom and no one is telling them what or what not to do. Even if you’re in communication every minute, you’re not sure if that person is actually doing what you’ve told.
Once you’re both together, let’s see if everything will work smoothly. I’ve been there and I felt like I’m in chain. It’s fun to have LDR coz you have freedom and you’re being loved. Let’s see if both will work when a man has a ball of chain on his ankle.
There are some people who started with LDR and ended up in LDR. Good luck to those people.
May 29th, 2008 at 11:05 am
LDR is a total pain in the tookus. I am currently sorta, kinda in one. I’m in VA he’s in TX. THAT’S crazy LDR…
May 29th, 2008 at 11:29 am
LDR is fun, specially when your girlfriend fu.cks the nearest guy, and you can’t do anything about it because you are sooooo far away.
HAHA
May 29th, 2008 at 4:33 pm
there are some LDR relationships that work, some that dont. depends on the people if they would work it out or not but being a bitch about everything would definitely not work in ANY relationship at all. my husband and i used to have an LDR relationship, but here we are now, happy together.
May 29th, 2008 at 5:29 pm
mas maganda yung nasa right. why not try face to face. ahahaha.. yung walang angle para hindi na kailangang mamili. kita naman ang kaliwa at kanan.
May 29th, 2008 at 11:42 pm
It’s hard
Been in this set up before and torture. Tigang ang beauty, sister! Hahaha
May 31st, 2008 at 9:30 pm
all i can say is
I HATE IT hmf
May 31st, 2008 at 9:35 pm
Long distance must be hard, but it makes people and their relationships stronger.
June 1st, 2008 at 12:41 pm
Actually, LDR won’t make the relationship stronger in my opinion. Problems being encountered together make the couple stronger. Arguing and blaming each other about it won’t make relationship stronger either. Communication, honesty and trust make couple strong.
June 1st, 2008 at 1:55 pm
LOL at all this
June 1st, 2008 at 11:49 pm
they said that most of LDR didn’t work. but for me it depends to the couple. as long they are faithful, honest and inloved to each other maybe LDR will surely work!
June 7th, 2008 at 5:28 pm
i’ve been through LDR, luckily i passed it, we’re now married! communication, trust, respect and love are the keys to it… can work on some but still, it depends on the couple…
August 28th, 2008 at 10:54 am
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LDR is fun, specially when your girlfriend fu.cks the nearest guy, and you can’t do anything about it because you are sooooo far away. HAHA
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QFT
August 30th, 2008 at 9:12 am
My girlfriend lives 120 miles away a 90 minute drive, 2 hrs if traffic… I don’t know if this is considered a LDR, probably not. But when ever I see her I like to spend at least a few days with her ever week. Cost $50 in gas roundtrip but worth it everytime…
October 5th, 2008 at 2:16 pm
Many people in LDR don’t even have a choice. Grow up, people, and wipe that smugness off your greasy faces. There’s a whole wide world out there, which you probably don’t know about, being sheltered and all
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LDR is fun, specially when your girlfriend fu.cks the nearest guy, and you can’t do anything about it because you are sooooo far away. HAHA
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Speaking from experience?