All relationship varies and so is every breakup. However, here are some things you can do to help get him back.

Be pleasant and nice always. You may think shrewish attitude will get you what you want, that is untrue. If you nag, scold, complain or act rough, you are just reminding him of things he wants to get away from you. If you make things uneasy every time you see him, he will definitely only want to see you less and less.

If you can be nice, then any problems you had before the breakup likely don’t appear virtually as significant now. You might find yourself questioning why you weren’t more pleasing when you were together. Of course, you can’t change the past, but do not forget that later when you’re back together. Maybe you want to let him know that you have taken him for granted in the past. He believably took you for granted too, but don’t ask him to accept it now.

What if your ex has a new girlfriend now? Difficult to get over, right? If he has someone new in his life, he will surely be focusing and spending his time alone with that new girl, and that would be harder for you to be with your ex. Remember that you are part of the past, and not a priority. Ouch. But let him see what he is lacking and how great you are.

Can I get my ex back by hocus-pocus? Getting even is never the solution, it can even be toxic so do not ever go there. Misleading or even the most guiltless person could blowback later. It is completely nonsense figuring out how to get him back only to lose him a little while later because he finds out about your unrighteousness. Making him jealous is not a good idea. It could work but making him think you have moved on could also go back to you like a boomerang. If you truly feel the need to date and you are happy, then do so. It is unfair to your date if you are only going out with him to make your ex jealous. Games like this normally don’t work. You remain a better chance of getting your ex back if you are honest with yourself and others.

Good luck, dear.

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This post is dedicated to alli and to those who keep being the rebound girl and keep getting guys who just want sex and that’s it.

Well, anyway, how do you know whether the person you are with is just on the rebound? Are there indications or signs? Also, how long would be long enough before getting involved with someone who is fresh out of a previous relationship?

I know it’s a hard question and it’s actually impossible to answer. I think it all depends. Some will take months and years and so and some never really get over a broken heart. Sad to say, there is no set amount of time for every person.

Hm. Maybe to avoid being the rebound girl, don’t have sex with men who just got out of a relationship. If you’re going to date them, well, wait until they’re completely over the other female.

Now, why I am talking about this subject? “It’s for you, guys, to know and for me to find out.” Hahaha! Quoting Marlon Carmen!

What would you regard as a long distance relationship? Could an hour away be a LDR? Are you presently in a LDR so how is it going for you?

I believe an hour away is just whining and bitching. You know, it takes an hour –- or a couple of hours if there is gridlock — to get from his place to the place where I live and I believe that is not a LDR! I guess, I would consider a long distance relationship if your significant other is in another state or country or if you cannot really see each other during the week or weekend.

This face does not deserve LDR. pbbbt.

Anyway, I am currently not in a LDR and thank God we are not because I think the daydream world of LDR is not at all times the reality of how it would be like if you were together always.

Also, LDR couples must know that it takes a real sky-scraping level of communication and trust between the two of you to make the relationship work. But gah. It’s a waste of time if you are not together. Period. I don’t want LDR. I don’t want.

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Hello laarnaay, how are you? Can you answer my question? You see, I like better non lips-to-lips kisses but can you tell me how to perfect lips-to-lips kisses or simply feel comfortable about it? Please help. I am nervous about it and the whole tongue-rolling business is driving me up the wall. – Miss Anon

Hi Miss Anon,
Are you sure you are not a spam? lol. What in the hell is non-lips-to-lips kisses? But I am assuming that means like kissing the neck or something, right? Hmm. Do not think that you are supposed to actually follow rules while you are at it because there are no rules or whatsoever, baby.

I do not think there actually is a right way to kiss. If you are not enjoying what you’re doing then I supposed you’re not doing it right. Or maybe having a good kisser boyfriend could help out more and let him take the lead. Generally, you kiss a good kisser and let them kiss you — kind of play along and discover what you think is good.

More or less the whole tongue-roll business you are saying is overrated but always remember when you do it, it’s not going to be a sword fight. lol.

Okay. I lied. The only rule I think and it is the famous one I know is, “Don’t shove your tongue down their throat.”

I am ending this entry. How about you? I know you are a better kisser than me. What IS your number one tip?

Can you kill yourself because significant other doesn’t love you anymore?

Local artist, Criselda Volks, is still in love with his ex-husband Cris Villanueva. I don’t know what exactly what happened with their relationship but according to the news, losing the man of her life triggered her to overdose herself with sleeping pills. She was very dependent and out of control and was using sleeping pills for more than 10 years.

After her last attempt of killing herself, her parents and her relatives went home here in the Philippines and they decided to send her in a rehab for addiction treatment.

After the rehab, she proudly told the media that she is a new woman now, and she is taking care of her son and trying to be his mom once more. Also, she still respects Cris as the father of her son and she wishes him happiness. She still loves him but she knows that she should accept the fact that Cris is out of her life already. Though Criselda admitted that Cris doesn’t respect her anymore and doesn’t treat the child as his son.

We have most likely all felt like it at some point in our life for this very reason but if my s/o does not love me anymore then I would move on to find someone who would love me. I would in no way kill myself over a man.

Women…

• wear makeup
• wear lipstick, gloss, lip liner
• pluck or thread their eyebrows
• use eyeliner, mascara
• dye and style their hair
• wear high heels to be taller
• accent with jewelry and accessories
• sleep in creams
• shave hair
• paint their nails
• cover their body with stylish clothes

While Men…
shave, wash, wear clothes and ready to go.

Do we alter so much to have an honest relationship with men? Don’t look at your screen with violent reactions. I believe the things I mentioned are all the physical improvements that some women do to be a magnet for the opposite sex and good sign that you are taking care of yourself. I don’t consider them alterations but grooming, because being extremely tidy does not always Read the rest of this entry »

Men notice your chipped nail polish when nails are anywhere near the breasts, that is the truth of life.

But, girls, listen, most men do not notice. Those men that do either metro sexual or just good at remembering. Obviously, that will depend on the amount of the nail polish breaking off. If it seems like your nails just came out of a shredder, then men might notice.

Most women are very decisive of themselves, especially their appearance. But I believe, men will fail to see a passing slip of women’s one hour of finicky grooming as long as she shines when she goes out.

Speaking of nail polish, I have a new one, it’s Sally Hansen’s Advanced Hard As Nails. I thought the color was purple but it turned out natural pink-ish. Anyway, I revived my old Sally Hansen’s dirty white polish for my first attempt of french tip. Not bad.

I damaged my fiance’s pocket. I am innocent. I did not force him.

The statement opposites attract is intriguing. Finding someone who is completely unlike you in every way but still happy with themselves.

But this is not always the case. I believe that couples have to have something that they like doing together and not just in a horizontal position. Basically, their morals must be the same somewhere along the line, no matter how opposite they are. Like men are generally interested in sports while most women are not. There is respect for each other’s dissimilarities.

Couples should not always have enough similarities to Read the rest of this entry »